The game... ~storm~

This new life of mine. This re-inventing myself is so far the most exciting experiment I have ever come across.
"The Game" Do you ever wonder what it really means? Why do men I meet, tend to tell me on the first couple of "talkings" and "getting to know you" stage, never fails to mention.. "I do not like to play games..."
As the nice girl we believe this, however who ever believes this often never admits. I have been the victim, and act as if I never believed but deep down I believed.
An example..
I believed that when he told me "I don't like to play games or waste time playing one.."
He could be that "right guy" He could just be...
I believed because I am not a very cautious girl, I pretended not to believe, because I want to be a smart girl and show that your ass is not playing me!

What is wrong with this picture? I feel that if others, were to read this.. and even if I was to read this.. I would say... This is girl is stupid!
But if it were to happen to us... we as "nice girls" will feel somewhat or exactly the same way.

I hide every sign of emotions and put up the bitch mode to where I do not care! But in reality, I am not fooling the guy but only myself.
Now, I have finally come to realize that I am the easiest target of his game.

The Game: (in a man's world) it is to make you believe that there is no trick up his sleeve. When a man tells you he does not want to play any games... he just started one!
And guess what? You're in it for a ride!

Men are from Mars and we are from Venus. They speak a different language. There is a book that says that when the Martians discovered the Venusians, they quickly fell in love and did everything they could to get to them, when they finally got there the venusians welcomed them with open arms.. everything went great! They understood and learned their differences.
Then they decided to fly to Earth. In the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful. But the effects of Earth's atmosphere took hold, and one morning everyone woke up with a peculiar kind of amnesia-selective amnesia!
In one morning everything they had learned about their differences was erased from their memory. And since that day men and women have been in conflict.

My translation... Men will forever be attracted to venusians... they will do everything they can to get her! Everything! And women will always welcome them with open arms. The question is... how many martians are trying to get me? How many Venusians attract one man?

There are so many beautiful fishes in the sea, and guys are like sharks, they are out to get them all!

"I am now a bitch and will no longer play your games!" (the old)
"I am now a bitch and will play your game with you!" (the new)

OUT with the OLD and IN with the NEW

On my intro post I talk about falling so quickly and doing so much for one.
I come across so many sharks everyday, going to work, jogging, going out to clubs, or even at walmart! The worst place they hang out with is probably the clubs or bars, but regardless.. they are everywhere! Including the CYBERWORLD!

Anyway, when I first meet a guy, they typically do everything they are supposed to.. then when I give in, they suddenly change.. they suddenly don't answer the phone, or calls you back when it is convenient for them... I get so frustrated and mad, find reasons to why? where? and when? Its time consuming! and unnecessary energy.. but I still do it!...
My new actions?? I will get back to you when it is convenient for me! Its hard to get to this.. specially if you have always been the nice girl. But as a Bitch I have learnt to communicate in their language. Not only did i learn it but also adapted to it. Yes I act just like a guy, and feel just like one. And I don't really care! Even if I was really only tweezing my eyebrows, and he calls me... "i will call you back when im free!" This is my world, and you are not the center of it.. I am!

Ever wonder why is it that guys that you are not attracted to or you dont waste your time with are always there.. always chasing.. calling and never leaves you the fuck alone! And on the other hand... the guy you want.. is always busy, and your main communication is texting... most of their phone call conversation is short and wants to meet up... and if you were to just call them in the evening, just to talk, they either keep it short or they text you. Its like they are hiding something all the time!
Well more than likely they are!

A guy likes the thrill of the chase... because their ego as a "man" is very important to them! If you give them what you want too quickly they get bored. It makes them go crazy when they are finding it difficult to catch the biggest fish... and when they finally do they are proud to be a man!

I hate to say this but the only way to win this man is to let him be a man!
It doesn't mean give him everything.... give a little and then pull back.

I will talk about it more later on other posts... i hope that this has inspired many more of my fellow Venusians.

(please feel free to comment on your input or feedback, also if you yourself is going through or also joining to change from being a "good girl" to a "bitch")

Peacefully signing off.
~Storm